Biblical explanation
Proverbs warns that “a talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter” (), and describes how contention ceases when gossip stops, since “where no wood is, there the fire goeth out” (). Paul lists “whisperers” and “backbiters” among serious sins in , showing how seriously Scripture treats destructive speech about others. Instead, believers are instructed to let no corrupt communication proceed from their mouth, but only what is “good to the use of edifying” (). When there is a genuine concern about someone's behavior, Jesus's model of going directly and privately to address it () is the appropriate biblical alternative to gossip.
In brief
Proverbs warns that “a talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter” (), and describes how contention ceases when gossip stops, since “where no wood is, there the fire goeth out” ().
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