Life and Relationships

What Does the Bible Say About Dating?

While the Bible does not mention modern dating directly, its principles on purity, honoring others, and choosing companions wisely provide clear guidance for pursuing a relationship that honors God and prepares for marriage.

Published 2026-09-13 · Updated 2026-09-27

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Biblical explanation

Scripture repeatedly warns against being “unequally yoked” with unbelievers in binding relationships, since light and darkness have little common ground (). Paul instructs believers to treat one another with purity, addressing the opposite sex “with all purity” as one would a family member (), and to flee sexual immorality rather than testing personal limits (). Wisdom, shared faith, character, and clear communication about intentions matter more than surface qualities like appearance alone (). A dating relationship pursued with prayer, accountability, and a clear goal of discerning marriage compatibility, rather than as mere entertainment, honors both people and God.

In brief

Scripture repeatedly warns against being “unequally yoked” with unbelievers in binding relationships, since light and darkness have little common ground ().

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